Get along with each other, and forgive each other. If someone does wrong to you, forgive that person because the Lord forgave you. Col 3:13
Unity doesn't begin in examining others but in examining self. Unity begins not in demanding that others change, but in admitting that we aren't so perfect ourselves…
The answer to arguments? Acceptance. The first step to unity?
Acceptance. Not agreement, acceptance. Not unanimity, acceptance. Not negotiation, arbitration, or elaboration. Those might come later but only after the first step, acceptance.
In the Grip of Grace (by: Max Lucado)